So the day "sleepless in Tucson" came back. I went on a date from a guy I met on Bumble. We will call him the "nice guy." So we hilariously dated on one thing the fact that are Briggs Myers personality test said we were the ultimate duality match. We said in the name of science we must meet. I am an ESFJ he's INTJ. We had very easy texts back and forth it feels effortless. We had a great date. It ended early as I had pet sitting. But things were awesome movie and then arcade! We geeked the fuck out. Saw for the Love of spock. Anyway after the date we flirted more and made a second date for tonight. We saw a zombie movie, I had seen that I knew would blow his mind. We went to dinner first and the saw a late night showing. Things were awesome. But he hasn't made a single move. Like nothing not even a hand bump. I thought about making the move but ehhh after "sleepless in Tucson" I just kinda enjoyed the child like effortlessness of flirting. :)
So before my date tonight... a ghost from the past showed up. "Tall dark and handsome" otherwise known as the guy that was too busy for me and republican. 7 feet tall and has a serious career. Hmm.
Tuesday, September 13, 2016
Sleepless in Tucson...
So a few months ago I got a message on Okcupid... this attractive guy wanting my number right away and I was like "Hold your damn horses" I kinda ignored him. Then a few weeks ago, bored lonely I gave in. We talked on the phone and he was so sweet and genuine. Told me these sad stories about his overly hard life and I was like a nurse to a flame... I mean moth. So a few days later I meet him at my bar. There was instant attraction and we went back to my place... he didn't leave till Sunday. Their were time when I wanted to ask him to leave I had things to do. But I just went with it, played house, I guess. Well Tues came and he had to go back to work in Tucson, like he does every week. So this weekend he got back on Sat. He was tired, freaking exhausted. Yet he wanted to see me. So I met him for dinner at 10. Dinner was nice. He was present and engaged. We went back to my place and he seemed uninterested in making out but was still, lofty and cute. He went home around one am. I was like "Please call me when you get home, you're so exhausted..." So when I got a call 30 mins later...
His voice had changed. Like literally I could hear heartache. He pretty much told me I was too good for him, that he was a cheater and that I deserved so much better. Instantly I was defensive and hurt. I ended the call and then became angry. I texted him back with a what the fuck just happened?... he called me again. He said some weird shit. Like he was forgoing true happiness and was going to have sex with this girl that didn't want a relationship. He said it in the nicest way someone could say that. I could hardly sleep after that. But in the morning after really thinking. He was right! He would never be the ONE. He has kids he never sees and some charges that involved violence. I was pretty upset. Something about being "dumped" by someone not good enough seemed harsh and cruel... but after a little investigation he really was a huge man whore. So yeah... next.
His voice had changed. Like literally I could hear heartache. He pretty much told me I was too good for him, that he was a cheater and that I deserved so much better. Instantly I was defensive and hurt. I ended the call and then became angry. I texted him back with a what the fuck just happened?... he called me again. He said some weird shit. Like he was forgoing true happiness and was going to have sex with this girl that didn't want a relationship. He said it in the nicest way someone could say that. I could hardly sleep after that. But in the morning after really thinking. He was right! He would never be the ONE. He has kids he never sees and some charges that involved violence. I was pretty upset. Something about being "dumped" by someone not good enough seemed harsh and cruel... but after a little investigation he really was a huge man whore. So yeah... next.
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